Sunday, November 13, 2005

Dating Again!

Yes, I have jumped back into dating. Call me crazy, but its so much fun!!!
This time I have made a vow to myself to do the background check before I get involved. Call me a bitch, but it is really something we all should do. I know we are supposed to trust people and I do, but having some information on that person is kinda handy and very informative. Wish I would have done this in the past, but I am one who learns from my mistakes.
Hell, at my age its more like a job interview than a date. So I'm taking my time and enjoying every minute of it.

Hope you all had a super weekend!!!!

10 comments:

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Bud said...

Good for you and glad you're being careful girl! When you get my CD, check out the song "To Be Alone."

Dick said...

Where's the application I need to fill out?

Assorted Babble by Suzie said...

Jill, I am so happy for you and YOU are doing the right thing. It is so weird because I have met someone too....actually that night out (looking my worst)w/my daughter....Halloween night...the post about pick-up lines. He did not use any, but things are moving along very slowly since then...however he calls several times a day. He flew to LA...your side of the country yesterday....We have went out a few times....but I am keeping my safe distance....until I totally feel comfortable w/the situation.

I am taking baby steps and asking more questions that I would normally do....I have to be careful..it has been a long time for me to even give someone a chance. So far so good! Haven't written about it due to someone from my hometown that reads my blog...that cares deeply for me. How stupid I was at the beginning to mention and give out my blog address early on. OH WELL...

Thrilled for you.....(smiling big)

Jillian said...

Bud: Can't wait to hear it!

Dick: Where would you lile the application sent?

Suzie: I'm so happy for you!! I hear ya on giving out your blog address!! Thats why I moved mine!

Dick said...

bigdicksplace@yahoo.com would do nicely.

blue1aqua1 said...

wait what happen to your boyfriend. i thought ya'll were doing great togther.
do tell! do tell! well u dont have to give all details just some.
oh boy i feel like i missed so much.

~Deb said...

Hmmm.... I feel sorry that you need to go through a background check in order to date someone.

I think everyone has "a past", and some worse than others, but it sounds like your trust was broken, and I'm sorry to hear that. We tend to put these big walls up, due to someone who has hurt us prior.

I hope that this guy is good to you---treats you well---and makes you feel good about "you".

Let us know how it goes!

{{hugs}}

Seamus said...

Do background checks include the dogs and cats as well? Hmmmm?
Glad you are back into the fray! :D

art said...

I think doing a background check is a damn smart thing to do. If there is information available to protect you, enable you, or just plain enlighten you and you ignore it then you are a fool. Knowledge is power